Category Archives: Pregnancy

Support a Doula, Get a Cool Shirt!

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Check out this awesome shirt design made by Princess Daddy to support me on my journey to become a childbirth educator and doula. Order your shirt today and share the idea with your friends. This design will only be available until April 15th so act now!

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Writer Road Trip: 50 Shades of Mommy Wars

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Writer Road TripThis month has been a very trying month for me. First, all the sudden there is an uproar about moms wearing yoga pants, then there was a measles outbreak at Disneyland and the whole country went crazy and finally, the movie “50 Shades of Grey” came out in theaters and people POUNCED. I try really hard to remain neutral because I’m a blogger and I often have to represent both sides in my social media freelance work but when posts get completely overwhelming like they have been, I take a different approach: I leave social media altogether. No one in my real life is going to bring up these controversial topics and if they do, it’s with a mutual agreement that we love and care about each enough to empathize, respect and stop before feelings get hurt. Guess what? Posts on the internet that make money off of people viewing and sharing them aren’t too concerned about people’s feelings getting hurt. There are the few gems but let’s face it, anything you read in a blog should be taken in with a grain of salt. And I’m a blogger. I can say that.

Frustrated with the ongoing, never-ending mommy wars, I took a new fun spin on it and created my latest post for Mumbling Mommy. Go check it out, 50 Shades of Mommy Wars. You won’t regret it.

Life Through Lyrics: Snow Patrol’s Chasing Cars

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Chasing_CarsFor my latest installment in Life Through Lyrics, I bring to you ‘Chasing Cars’ by Snow Patrol. This is a slightly older (a decade or so) song that I fell in love with as I sobbed watching Denny die on Grey’s Anatomy after everything Izzy tried to do to save him. To this day I still cannot wait that episode with bawling.

I revisited this song often during my days of infertility and after my miscarriages when I felt most alone in the world, I blasted it louder than my ears could handle and screamed along to it in my car on the highway. After years of listening to it and using it for every good, bad and ugly moment of my life, it is truly the one song I come back to over and over again as mine. It’s relatable to me in ways I don’t expect others to understand and that’s okay with me. Anyway… Read the rest of this entry

Review: Reusable Cloth Pads via Pampered Mama

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This post is Day 18 for National Blog Posting Month on Blogher.

Please note that while I do post many product reviews based on receiving products for free, this review is being done completely of my choice simply to tell you about a product and company I love. I have purchased all of my products and reviewed my own personal collection.

579701_558974344121724_1328241020_nI started using cloth pads about 4 months after my twins were born. I googled cloth products and compared the first two things that came up, picked a few and done. I didn’t ask my friends or talk to my mom. I was pretty secretive about it at first. I’m not so sure I was ashamed of what I was doing but rather I was just very new to this world of natural living.

About 3 months in, I was convinced. I didn’t have enough pads for my full cycle and I could easily tell the difference between my cloth days and disposable days. My cramps were different. My flow was different. My skin irritation was different. It was pretty miraculous. I knew I needed more and by this time, I was comfortable speaking up in some of my Facebook groups of crunchy moms. Read the rest of this entry

#MommyConKC Spotlight: January Harshe from Birth Without Fear

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e12cb8b5885eeb8aa178be2f8ad62333This post is Day 16 for National Blog Posting Month on Blogher.

Before Mommy Con, I had no idea what Birth Without Fear was. I didn’t know who January Harshe was. I had no idea what to expect. So here I came in, blind and mostly unaware of what would happen over the next 45 minutes. I have three daughters. I’m not pregnant. I don’t really foresee having any more children… So you wouldn’t really think my take-away would be all that powerful.

But it was.

Oh. My. God. It was. Read the rest of this entry

Letters From Santa: Help a Local NICU

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20131017-065455.jpgThis post is Day 4 for National Blog Posting Month on Blogher.

Shameless plug I suppose… Forgive me.

Some of you might already know this but after the traumatic birth of my youngest two daughters, I dealt with a lot of things. I couldn’t really find myself. I struggled with depression. Everything in my world changed very drastically and not many people seemed to understand. Insert the NICUPS. These lovely ladies and gentlemen were on my side during a disastrous time in my life. They knew what I was going through because they had all been there themselves! Now, nearly two years later, I have joined this group and I am inspired and blessed every day to work with new parents standing where I once stood. It is so meaningful to reach out to a group that held my hand already. Read the rest of this entry

Blogs I Read

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BlogThis post is Day 3 for National Blog Posting Month on Blogher.

I normally don’t blog on weekends, even less on Sundays but since I am participating in NaBloPoMo, I had to come up with something. I decided on a shout out to some of my favorite bloggers. If you don’t read these, maybe now is a good time to add them to your favorite reader! Read the rest of this entry

#MommyConKC Wrap Up (No Pun Intended)

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20131029-192349.jpgWhat is it? I heard about MommyCon through my local babywearing group. They were putting together a group to get discounted rates to the convention. Since it was located sort of local-ish (a 4 hour drive) but only minutes from my big brother and his wife, my mind started whirling and I knew I had to go! PLUS, I am going to be an Aunt for the first time soon so what better way to introduce my sister-in-law to a fun world of natural parenting (which she was already intrigued about.)

Anyway, what is MommyCon? Quoted directly from their website, MommyCon is a parenting convention of “forward thinking in parenting concepts.” Read the rest of this entry

#TenThoughtsTuesday

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Ten Thought TuesdayIn an effort to be less wordy and more random, I’ve taken the advice of some of my new favorite blogging buddies and am launching a new fun Tuesday theme… If only I remember to keep up with it.

1. If you have a smart phone, I strongly recommend downloading “Yoga Studio.” It has a huge selection of preprogrammed in home yoga video classes plus a good 200+ poses to pick from if you want to create your own. I love yoga but am nowhere near coordinated. I get embarrassed in group classes because I stumble a lot.

2. I love writing guest posts especially when other writers give me prompts and questions. It gives me a chance to connect with new audiences as well as write out of my normal comfort zone. Every writer (blogger) should reach out to their fellow “co-workers” and do the same every once in a while. It’s good for the mind. (So if you ever want me to do a guest post, hit me up! I’ll gladly swap you and feature a post of yours on my blog too.

3. My youngest girls will be two years old in just 3 short months. HOW THE HELL DID THIS HAPPEN????? Who let them grow up right under my nose? I mean seriously! Read the rest of this entry

Healing Through Writing: My Birth Story Part 4, The Conclusion

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Finally, we come to the end of the story. I started these posts back in March but life of course has just gotten in the way. If you missed them, here’s My Birth Story Part 1, My Birth Story Part 2 and My Birth Story Part 3. My birth story didn’t happen on just one day after several hours of labor. It was a two month long traumatic experience. This is my journey and by writing it all out to share, I have managed to feel at peace. I look at my healthy one and a half year olds and feel immensely blessed that our story happened how it did and wasn’t any worse. 

RecoveryWith the realization of being of being 5 cm dilated, we asked the resident what was going to happen. It was getting late and Nana Bear was anxiously waiting for an update. Orange had already gone to bed and Nana Bear was exhausted and just hanging out on our couch. Princess Daddy really wanted to go home too. If they were just going to stop my labor, there was no reason for him to still be around. She looked at us both and advised him to not go anywhere. She said she had to check with my doctor but that she was pretty sure we would be proceeding with delivery.

All the sudden things moved quickly. My OB came back in just moments later after reviewing the images of the girls’ positions. Pink’s cord was actually a BIG deal. Purple could likely make it out safe but if Pink didn’t turn head down, or if she caught her cord with her feet down, we could have been dealing with a cord prolapse, a very scary emergency situation that could kill both her and me. The girls were estimated to be so small that 5 cm was plenty big enough to start feeling the urge to push. As I quickly became more and more uncomfortable, there was no longer any time to think and debate about what was going to happen. Read the rest of this entry